Sunday, January 11, 2015

new discoveries

Or maybe not so new, just reaffirming what I already knew...some things in life  are just better or easier dealt with when you have someone to lean on.
Case in point...left work yesterday and drove to meet with the guy I am seeing, object to see a movie maybe dinner too..just spend some time together... And my car, which I was planning to take to the mechanic this week for him to check out, decided to give up on me. Died on me an hour away from home. On a Saturday night. Wonderful.
All sarcasm meant.
So I go for a mental breakdown, stopped only by two things. .this is not a side of me he needs to see, ever, Lol...and it really wasn't going to help anything if I lost my mind.
So we made the best of the situation, enjoyed spending the extra time together....still in the stages of finding out new things about each other.. And tried to get the car started again this morning, only to end up having it towed. Figured it was the alternator, but the shop couldn't find anything wrong.  So I am now back home, car ran fine, hoping all work in the morning.
My point is that he kept me sane. Kept me laughing and not overthinking the problem too hard... A "we will get through it" mindset. I've missed that. And it felt really good to know someone was there to give hugs and support and care enough to be there.

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